“Most of the [real-life self-defense] incidents are resolved by situational awareness, seeing a potential problem and avoiding it. Next is aggressive posturing combined with strong, unmistakable verbal commands. Fewer still are resolved with OC spray, a few by the display of the handgun, and very rarely, shots are fired.” -Ed Lovette
The above quote by Ed Lovette rings very true. Understanding it leads us to a very important point: We cannot just give someone a gun, some pepper spray, or martial arts training and expect them to successfully ward off danger and victimization. We must realize that a successful defense strategy must involve avoiding dangerous situations in the first place. Simple awareness and avoidance can keep potential victims out of dangerous situations in the first place. Additionally, confidence and even verbal self-defense can scare off most potential attackers before they attack, because attackers look for easy prey. Generally speaking, if potential victims need to pull out a weapon or fight, then the problem already occurred. In fact, sometimes violent defense just escalates the situation and makes the problem worse.
Most self-defense classes teach students to see physical combat as a last resort. These classes give the students the knowledge and training to avoid the need for physical combat in the first place.
What do you think?
Friday, November 17th 2006 at 11:40 pm
Your article speaks to the truth of common sense, as it relates to the “voice” that warns us of ominous situations…….. if only more people could comprehend that! Sadly though, I think more people are prone to think that the gun (or taser, karate skills, etc.) will enhance their sense of security, but I know by experience that it does not.